SUPPORT AND COMFORT
FOR THE ADULT FEEDERA
child's efficient use of the mouth for eating depends
heavily on the steadiness or stability of the trunk,
neck, and head. This stability is provided by the support
surface of a lap or infant seat until the baby has
developed adequate head and trunk control. Infants and
young children with feeding difficulties are typically
held on the feeder's lap at mealtimes and during
preparatory therapy. Atypical body tone and uncoordinated
movements often result in lengthy meals that are
uncomfortable for the feeder. Many severely involved
children continue to be on-lap feeders into the
pre-school years. Therapy for these and older children is
often more effective and efficient when carried out on
the lap rather than in a wheelchair or other static piece
of equipment. Physical and emotional comfort are closely
intertwined. Even slight physical discomfort can be
expressed in emotional terms. Emotional tension,
impatience, and a critical outlook may become part of a
meal when the feeder is not comfortable.
Challenges for the Feeder
Lets look at some common physical challenges for the
feeder of the young child. When an adult sits on the
floor with the child on the lap, tension can develop in
the lower back. During the meal or therapy the adult's
body is frequently static. If there is nothing to lean
against, the lower back fixes or tenses to create
additional stability to support extended sitting. When
this is repeated frequently, lower back problems can
develop or become worse.
When the child has poor head control, the feeder
frequently supports the head by resting it in the crook
of the arm. If the feeder's arm is not supported, weight
of the child's head is usually counterbalanced by tension
and elevation of the shoulder girdle and arm. This can
result in stiffness of the shoulder on that side, along
with fatigue and pain.
When an adult sits on a chair with feet flat on the
floor, the thighs often slant slightly downward. This
happens because the height of the chair is often somewhat
taller than the length of the leg. When the child is
placed on the lap, there is a tendency for the body to
slide slightly downhill. Most adults unconsciously
compensate for this problem and create a level lap [or a
lap that slants slightly inward] by coming up on their
toes. This makes it much easier for the child, but
contributes to leg and ankle fatigue and stiffness for
the feeder.
The feeder's tension and lack of comfort influences
the child's eating and drinking skills. Skillful, graded
movement is based upon a fine balance between stability
and mobility. This skill in the feeder is compromised
when joints and muscles are held tensely in place. It
becomes more difficult to adjust the child's body and use
just the right amount of timing and movement with the
spoon or cup. Children respond to physical and emotional
tension in others by increasing their own tension and
anxiety. A child who feels the increasing tension in the
feeder's body, may react by pushing back into extension
or loosing overall coordination for eating. As the adult
fatigues during the meal, the child's position on the lap
may deteriorate. A shoulder and arm which elevated at the
beginning of the meal to bring the child's head into a
forward chin-tuck position begins to drop. The child
falls into a more reclined position with the head and
neck slightly hyperextended.
Possible Solutions
The first step in making any change is the development
of awareness of sensations in your own body, and a
willingness to make the changes. Often when modifications
are suggested, a parent or therapist will say "It
isn't that uncomfortable" or "It isn't bad
enough". There is a subtle belief system that
supports a certain amount of physical discomfort as a
sign of hard work. When we hurt a little bit, we know
that we are on the right track. This is reflected on the
popular T-shirt that announces "No pain, no
gain". There is also a belief among parents and
therapists that full attention must be paid to the
child's needs, and not those of the adults. The awareness
that these underlying beliefs may be operating is a
simple first step. Both are common and strong in our
Western culture.
When sitting down in preparation for holding a child,
it is important to reflect initially on your own body.
Notice if the depth of the chair fits the length of your
thighs. Notice how your feet touch the floor and the
angle of your lap. If the child's head will be supported
by your arm, ask yourself what you could rest your arm on
to eliminate extra tension in your shoulder girdle. If
you are sitting on the floor, notice what is available to
support your back. If you do this before placing the
child on your lap, you can prepare your own environment
for support and comfort. As you do this, you have made
the most important contribution to the child's support
and comfort.
A number of relatively simple strategies can
contribute to comfort and support. Some involve
equipment, others can be created with items already in
the home or therapy room.
Back Support When Sitting on the Floor
If you are sitting on the floor with a child, you will be
more comfortable if you have support for your back. If a
couch or heavy chair is available, sit so that the
furniture supports your back. Alternatively, sit with
your back against a wall or bookcase. Extra support can
be provided for your lower back by placing a firm pillow
between the wall and the base of your spine.
These environmental alternatives are not
always available. Often the center of activity is in the
middle of a room, or furniture alternatives are not
nearby. A useful piece of equipment is the BackJack Chair. A
metal tubular frame is covered with colorful fabric and a
firm foam cushion.
The chair is light, yet sturdy
and can be easily transported in a car, or dismantled for
packing in a suitcase. When multiple chairs are available
in a home or therapy room, they can be stacked so that
they take up minimal space
The BackJack Chair was originally developed for
families who enjoyed sitting on the floor while watching
television. Knowing that some people like to sit up,
while others prefer lying down, the chair was designed to
support both positions. Each position offers special
support when used with a child with feeding issues. The
sitting position is ideal when holding a child upright or
in a semi-reclined or sidelying position. The reclined
position is perfect for movement and play with the child
straddling the adult's body.

Arm Support
Resting support for your arm is easily available if you
sit at the end of a couch or in a comfortable chair with
arms. Explore the position of your arm and find the best
height and angle for your shoulder and elbow. Rest your
arm directly on the arm of the furniture or use pillows
to adjust the height and amount of support. Spread a bath
towel over the furniture and pillows to protect them from
spilled food.
When sitting in a straight chair at a table there are
two alternatives for arm support. If you are facing the
table with your child held in the crook of your arm,
place the back of another chair or a small table or tall
box where you can rest your arm. You will need to explore
this alternative carefully to find the correct height.
Use pillows or towels to pad the support surface so that
it is comfortable. A second alternative is to use the
table itself for arm support. You will need to place your
body parallel to the side of the table so that your arm
rests comfortably on it's surface. Use pillows or folded
towels to raise the height of your arm as needed. A small
table or tray in front of you can hold the food. A piece
of non-slip shelf-liner can be placed under the pillows
to prevent slippage.
If an office chair or drafting
chair is used for feeding, the height of the chair seat
can be adjusted for each feeder. This is a very practical
alternative in a therapy or group environment. At home
this allows the chair height to be individually matched
to the height of the table.
A crescent-shaped
neck pillow can be placed around the child's neck to
provide extra support in bringing the head into a more
'chin-tuck' position.
Foot Support
Sit comfortably in the chair you will be using and focus
your attention on your legs and the angle of your lap.
Place the child on your lap in the position you will be
using for feeding. Notice whether your legs are
comfortably supported by the floor. Notice whether your
lap slopes slightly downward or whether it is level. You
may want your knees slightly higher so that your lap
slopes back toward your body. This can give the child a
more secure place for sitting. As you hold the child,
explore resting your feet on books of different heights
or a small stool. Find the height that is most
comfortable for you and the child. Make a foot rest with
the height you prefer. Old telephone books or cardboard
boxes filled with stacks of newspaper can be covered with
plastic for an inexpensive foot rest.
A foot rest that is angled so that the front legs are
shorter than the back legs provides wonderful support.
The height can be varied by placing the feet higher or
lower on the surface. The light oak Feeding Stool is a
popular choice for a commercial foot rest. It is both
utilitarian and attractive as a piece of furniture in a
home or clinic.

Many office supply catalogs also carry an adjustable
rubber and metal foot rest for persons working at
computers or typewriters all day.
Suzanne
Evans Morris, Ph.D.
Speech-Language Pathologist
New Visions
1124 Roberts Mountain Road
Faber, Virginia 22938
(804)361-2285
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© Suzanne Evans Morris, 1997 All Rights Reserved
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